
When to have memory checked
Ordinary aging looks like misplacing your keys, or taking a moment to find a name. Worth evaluating is when memory starts affecting how the day works:
- Repeating the same question or story within a single conversation
- Getting lost somewhere familiar, or getting confused while driving a known route
- Trouble managing money, bills, or medications that used to be routine
- Missing appointments, or mail and paperwork piling up
- Difficulty following a recipe, a set of instructions, or a plot
- Withdrawing from things they used to enjoy
- Changes in personality, judgment, or mood
- Family members quietly compensating — and not mentioning it to each other If you’ve noticed several of these, it’s worth an appointment.
If you’re unsure, it’s still worth an appointment.
What we look for first
Memory loss has many causes, and a number of them are treatable or reversible:
- Medication side effects and interactions — one of the most common causes, and among the most fixable
- Thyroid dysfunction
- Vitamin B12 and other nutritional deficiencies
- Depression, anxiety, and grief
- Sleep apnea and chronic poor sleep
- Hearing and vision loss, which are frequently mistaken for cognitive decline
- Infection, including urinary tract infections, which present as sudden confusion in older adults
- Alcohol use
- Lyme disease
- Stroke or vascular changes
- Brain tumors, cysts, or structural abnormalities
- Migraine
When the cause is a progressive condition — Alzheimer’s disease, vascular dementia, Lewy body dementia, or frontotemporal dementia — naming it accurately still matters. Different diagnoses carry different trajectories, different treatments, and importantly, different medications to avoid.
How the evaluation works
A long conversation. With you, and with a family member if one is available. What’s changed, when it started, whether it came on gradually or suddenly. Family observations are clinical information, and they’re often the most reliable data in the room.
A full medical history and medication review. Including everything over the counter. This step alone resolves some cases.
Physical and neurological examination. Along with cognitive testing appropriate to what we’re seeing.
Blood work. Thyroid, B12, metabolic panel, and other studies depending on the picture.
Imaging when it’s indicated. We order brain imaging — typically MRI — to look for strokes, vascular changes, tumors, cysts, and structural abnormalities, and we go through the results with you in plain language.
A plan you understand. Whatever we find, you leave knowing what it means and what happens next.
After a diagnosis
A diagnosis is the beginning of the work, not the end of it. Care from that point may include:
- Adjusting or stopping medications that worsen cognition
- Treating the contributing conditions — sleep, hearing, mood, nutrition
- Prescription medications where they’re appropriate, with honest conversation about what they can and can’t do
- Home safety changes, and the hard conversations about driving
- Occupational therapy and functional assessment
- Connecting your family with home care, adult day programs, and community services
- Support for the caregiver, who is also our concern
- Advance care planning while your family can still make decisions together
We stay with families through all of it. That’s not a marketing promise; it’s a function of how this practice is built.
Families belong in the room
FAQ
Some memory change is normal with age — briefly forgetting a name or misplacing an item. Memory changes that interfere with daily activities, such as managing medications, handling money, or navigating familiar places, are not normal aging and should be evaluated.
